So I guess I can start by saying this, I’ve been with my boyfriend for about 3 years now. The beginning of our relationship was tricky because we both worked together and weren’t suppose to be seeing each other. I ended up quitting my job and getting a different one so we could continue our relationship. Anyways, Things were awesome; always having sex, he complimented me constantly, wanted to spend time, we would talk for hours (typical honeymoon phase). Fast forward about a year and things started to simmer out. He was becoming distant. For my birthday I wanted to go camping, so we did. The WHOLE time he pretty much threw a fit and on my birthday we just went to our separate homes because the experience was not enjoyable. About 5 months after that he came over pretty drunk, after a night out with his guy friends. I am not the type of person to invade privacy, but I guess I was that night. I ended up going through his phone and I was going in deep. I mean back through months of old texts and fb messages. I found a conversation with him and A girl of course. He said all the same things he used to say to me. They talked about how fun it was hanging out together. Just to top it off it was all around my birthday. It really upset me and we fought a lot about it. He says they just talked and went on a walk together. They didn’t do anything... This part embarrasses me to admit but he actually was going to end things with me and i begged him not to. I don’t really know why but we needed up staying together. After that he stopped talking to her and we got really close again. Things have been really good the past year and a half. We have traveled a bunch and we bought a house together and we are now expecting a child together. But now, we are going through a rough patch again. I automatically feel insecure about myself and a part of me wonders if he is talking to someone again, or maybe I’m just being hormonal. He doesn’t really say much to me. He never really asks how I’m doing and he just talks about his day and problems and never listens to me about mine. Is it wrong that i jump to the conclusion that maybe he is talking to someone again? He never really engages in sex either. I feel like all of these little things are bringing me down everyday and it’s really hard...