I hate every hair colour I've tried, what should I do?

I like my natural colour more than the ones I've tried but it's dull and gets oily way too quick so I dye my hair and it helps with oils.

This is me with dark hair

Me with my current hair colour

Me before I dyed my hair

I wanna go bleach blonde (with upkeep so it'll basically be white) dirty blonde or grey or maybe soft black. I dont know 🤷🏻‍♀️ I have no idea what I'll like but I hate red tints in my hair, I literally despise it and all times I've dyed my hair there's been a warm or reddish hue to it.

This is me with grey hair

This is me with a cool blonde colour, idk what I think of it.

Help?