is this ok?

i dated a guy in high school when i was 17. he dropped out and turned into an addict. we ended up breaking up a year later. we were friends for about 10 years before we dated.

fast forward 5 years, i’m in a relationship, i now have a kid with the current guy i’m with, my life is complete. i love and trust my boyfriend.

my ex boyfriend added me on facebook and we started talking about how our lives changed and just updated eachother. we obviously have absolutely no intention of getting back together. is this weird? my boyfriend knows but he’s acting distant. trust me, there’s nothing to worry about anymore.

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Jo

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Your boyfriend knows but is he ok with it??? If it's causing tension or him to become distant.. Then you should delete him and not speak to him again..

Jo

Joana • Mar 1, 2019
But I understand everyone is different.. That's just what I would do 😌

KB

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How would you feel if the situation was reversed?? I know I wouldn’t like it if my man was talking to an ex. Regardless if you think feelings aren’t there, something is still there for you to want to still have that person in your life.

Al

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Have a chat with your boyfriend about it, then delete that guy if it’s making him worried x

Zi

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The fact that you are asking if this is weird should tell you something....how would you feel if your bf was talking to an ex? I’m definitely not trying to sound mean but I’m just blunt...I personally wouldn’t do it because I feel it would be disrespectful to my husband and i would definitely feel disrespected if he did that so I say if he’s part of your past leave him in your past. Again I’m just being straight forward and telling you how I would tell a friend who asked for my opinion