I’m writing this in hope to feel less crazy to see if I’m not the only one (and to rant a little😂) but the top 5 things I hate when someone is “trying to help”, giving advise, or unnecessary comments!

1. Just don’t stress! If you stress it’ll never happen! I feel like that comment just always makes me more stress! Like I’m pretty sure everyone knows not to stress😂

2. Stop trying! “One of my friends tried for years and when she gave up she got pregnant!” I don’t want to stop or “give up” I want to try as much as it can be hard or stressful there is some fun that comes with it to!

3. Why are you trying? It’ll happen when it happens! I know this kind of goes hand and hand with number 2 but I feel so frustrated when they say this! I WANT TO TRY stop telling me to stop! If I wanted to leave it in God’s or the universe hands I wouldn’t have started in the first place! (And for those to you who are religious I totally respect and understand you wanting to turn to God)

4. Are you sure your ready for something like that?? You’re life will be over after you have kids! Like no I didn’t think about making this big of a commitment and having a huge responsibility! I know what choice I want to make and yes I have thought about it but I don’t see it as throwing my live away I see me expanding in a new life that I’m looking forward to!

5. Are you pregnant yet?? No... not yet! Please stop asking it’s okay to ask who everything is going but when you repeatedly ask me that question it’s just a reminder that it hasn’t happened yet... if it happens I will let you know!

This post is not to hurt anyone’s feeling but maybe bring some of us together to let it all out! And maybe it’s my fault for telling them?? But I’m excited I want to share with people.. Well anyways thank you for any body listening! Baby dust to you all!💕