I got pregnant with our first at 17, had her the day before my 18th birthday. Been with my fiancé since 16, were both almost 22. We are hoping to start trying end of 2020 or 2021. When I was pregnant with my first, everyone was angry in my family and no one really was happy until she was born. Next time I’m pregnant, is it tacky to have a big baby shower and gender reveal since I didn’t get one for our daughter? Read a couple times it’s seen as tacky if you already have a child?