So, this is embarrassing, but my husband and I don’t really have sex (last year we only had sex 9 times)....I want to, but I don’t know how to get my husband’s sex drive to increase... he was a virgin when we first met and had never dated anyone prior to me, so has never really been sexual. He does have some ED issues, so we have to plan having sex around taking medicine and even then sometimes it doesn’t happen. We recently got married a month ago and I can’t help but feel really sad because I thought it’d magically get better with marriage. Any suggestions?