I’ve talked about this before but I’m going to do it again. Me and this guy have been friends for 12 years and I like him and I didn’t realize until he moved. A lot of you guys said just tell him and I asked him I said “ hey so question, if you like someone would you just openly say I like you?” And he said “ well it depends only if you are ready to commit to them” and I was like “ okay” and that was it, I’m still confused like I know him so well I should be able to just tell him but ever since he moved we haven’t talked that much and I don’t know if he has a girlfriend. I don’t want to seem desperate by asking him if he has one but I want to know. Anyway I don’t want to tell him and then have him not feel the same and then ruin our relationship. What do I do please help.