I am currently 30 weeks and I’m really starting to get anxious about my first baby’s arrival early May. I want to get all the baby stuff set up already so that I can just relax my few last weeks before I become a mom! Is that too much to ask for?! I’ll be working up until my delivery that’s all I want to focus on closer to my due date.....plus, my best friend just had her baby at 37 weeks. I want to be prepared as much as possible.

We have so much to do before baby comes, decide if we want to move to something bigger before delivery, have a baby shower, and set up nursery! Nothing has been done so far...

Everytime I mention any of these up to my husband he really gets annoyed and says we can do it later on maybe closer to the due date. But he doesn’t listen when I say I just don’t want the stress just before the baby comes!

Also, when I ask for some help or feed back about a baby shower date and where to have one he tells me that l’m over reacting about a silly party and can plan one in one day. He thinks I’m ridiculous for wanting to plan one at 7 months already. (& were supposed to move out? Jesus please take the wheel)

On top of it all my mom has told me she would help plan the shower, but she cant decide on a date and she just ignores my few messages asking her when I should have one. I don’t want to bother her but cmon, this is your first grandchild, do you not care????

I feel really sad that I feel like I’m doing this alone. My first baby I just want to celebrate him, becoming a mom, and make sure he is all settled. And the fact that no one cares I just want things done so I can just relax before my life changes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Am I overreacting? ☹️