3 days ago my boyfriend messaged this girl on Snapchat who he’s supposedly “grew up” with. During our relationship I went through their messages on snapchats and I saw a video of him grabbing her ass and she told him that “why do you want more nudes I sent you some of my titties already” which got me really mad because till our relationship he’s still been trying to talk to her and I’ve told him to stop many times, I tired to be cool and ok with it since they grew up but I couldn’t so I warned him several times and he just didn’t want to stop talking to him so this happened ..

I’ve cried a few times because in reality I just wanted him to choose me and say “ I love you and I’ll choose any girl over you” but he didn’t wanna choose so I wasn’t gonna have it that way and it broke things off Idk what to do I need help 😔😔

UPDATE: we broke up, he chose her over me because “they grew up together “ I cried a lot yesterday but I feel relived I just needed to let the hurt out is all .