Let me start by saying, my husband and I have amazing sex!... But... it’s the same sex every single time...

We’ve been together for 4 years, married a year and a half.

Or sexual chemistry is great, but it’s just incredibly predictable.

My husband only ever wants to have sex in the morning... I don’t hate morning sex, but I never feel my most confident and sexy in the morning.

I’ve tried getting him in the mood in the evening, but it never works... I think we have had sex after 4pm twice in the past 3 months.

So I’ll take morning sex as that’s all I get...

We always start the same, I’m on the left, he touches me to warm up, I get on top, then he gets behind me, then we finish in missionary... it always lasts 10-15 minutes.

We also only have sex in bed.

When we first started dating we would have sex on the couch, in the kitchen, in the bathroom... now it’s so robotic and routine.

I’ve tried lingerie in the evening... nothing.

Any suggestions how to spice things up?

Thanks!!