My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months. Since I have known him he has made it clear that he is not over his ex. He constantly talks about her (although he has gotten better) and talks about ALL his previous sexual adventures with all of his many ex's. He says I am helping him get over his ex and that he could love me someday (which is fine we have only been dating for 3 months he doesn't have to love me). He also constantly makes me feel insecure. I have lost over 80 pounds and he constantly talks about my weight (180 lbs) and talks about how I am not his type but my best friend is. Today what sent me home in tears was our conversation of how I was a "vanilla" and then he proceeded to talk about his many threesomes. I asked why he would tell me about it and his response was " I want to open up to you so you know what to look for..." What the heck does that mean? Should I stay with him? I feel happy with him for majority but then he will say something that just makes me wonder.

Also he never pays for my meals which doesn't bother me a whole bunch cause we are both broke. He has payed once