Husband has exes photos!?!

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I found pictures of my husband and 2 of his exes and photos and love letters! What would you do? We been together for 8 years. He has them in a safe locked away. I was snooping.

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I still have letters from an ex. Never look at them but they are just memories.

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He’s a dude he probably forgot they are even there

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I would leave it be.  If his exam weren't a concern before,  don't let them be now with the stuff you found.  My hubby and I will going on 9 years this Oct.  I found his and an ex`s love letters our first year. I asked him about it and told me if I wanted to read them.  I did. Talk about funnier than all hell. To this day I still tease him.  He doesn't have them anymore.  I got rid of my notes and pictures our second year in. Yes we both had relationship trust issues,  but we don't let it bother us now.  Tread lightly as it maybe something he does not want to talk about.

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I mean.... I am ok with my husband having photos with ex’s. Locked in a safe is odd but my husband is 12 years older than me and has prom pictures or pictures of them together... whether or not I like it, they are memories and some are good memories. He doesn’t have any raunchy or nude photos of them or love letters. I was married before my husband and have my precious wedding pictures, he would never ask me to throw them away and I’m not going to. Not because I miss my ex or anything, it’s something I can show my kids later... this is my life and I’m really they can learn from my mistakes lol. But anyways, It is history, they are memories and we can’t make them do a memory dumb and forget them completely. You should absolutely talk to him about them, why do you still have this stuff? especially love letters.. pictures are different then letters! lol I wouldn’t want to see those either!!

Husband has exes photos!?!

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