Am I wrong?

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I picked a fight because I woke up to my fiancé jacking off when I’m in the room. I feel like he’d rather watch porn then have the real thing.... like I’m there just for convenience 😔

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Maybe he didn't wanna wake you up? You were sleep and he was nice enough to handle his business instead

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If you were just there for convenience wouldn’t it make more sense for him to have sex with you instead of watching porn ...

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So maybe he was horny and he didn’t want to wake you up? Would have have preferred to wake up to him already inside you with asking if he could?

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I would flip my lid so rude

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In the same room? That’d annoy me. You were literally right there in the room. My fiancé likes to do it in the morning before work. Use to bother me but at least he’s not cheating and it’s not like I’ve never done it. I would make it clear that (idk if it does or not but) you aren’t mad he’s jacking off but that he did it in the same room and y’all could’ve just had sex. I found getting mad does nothing but make the problem worse. I found if I tell him I’m not mad he’s doing it but that he does it when I’m awake, or instead of having sex with me certain times, or he lied about it the conversation goes a lot better. Communication is key in a relationship.

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People really get mad over their boyfriends Jacking off?😂😂 Oh my god. Grow up ladies!

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I wouldn’t be mad, I’d probably be like wtf lol my husband always wakes me up tho, and I hate being woke up, I’m always pissy 😂

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Some people don't always want sex. Nothing wrong with that. So yes I'd say you are wrong unless he does this all the time instead of having sex with you. If sex is more common than this occurance then no problem.

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My boyfriend does it when I’m asleep next to him. He doesn’t want to wake me up because I get bitchy when I get woken up. So he jerks off 🤷🏼‍♀️ We actually had a long conversation about masturbation the other day. Sometimes guys just wanna get off but aren’t in the mood for sex. To me masturbation has never been a big deal, neither is porn. As long as it doesn’t impact our sex life, I don’t care. Him and I are able to have open conversations about it.

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i find that very disrespectful. I’d be pissed he didn’t wake me up if he wanted some 👊🏻

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