I just found out I’m pregnant. I have a 2yr old and a 1yr old already. My husband and I were contemplating mmmmmaybe talking about a third later but realistically we both knew we were done.

And now this. I’m right around 4ish weeks but have a very strong and clear positive test, so maybe further??

I just started a new job, so I’d get exactly 0 maternity leave. We can’t afford three kids in daycare but neither of us make enough to support the other one staying home.

If we move into a smaller apartment and make serious changes to our lifestyle we could maybe make a third work, but it would be a struggle, and we would not be able to provide for the two we already have the way we have been.

My husband 100% supports whatever I want to do, but I don’t know what to do.

Terminating would probably be the best option for my family, but I don’t know if I can go through with it...I’m already an emotional wreck thinking about it. But I’m also 0% excited about the idea of continuing the pregnancy either. A third kid might be wonderful....but probably not for like the next ten years at least.

What do I do?