Second degree tear

Does anyone else have a second degree tear? It has been nearly a week since my son was born and I’m still in really bad pain and have only been able to go to the bathroom once this week (being backed up makes it hurt more). I can barely walk. Did/is anyone else experience this? I was in tears earlier and just want to make sure it’s normal or if I should be worried. My ankles & feet are swollen (they weren’t during pregnancy) and I lost coloring in my face.