Ok ladies I need all the opinions I can get. I need to know if I’m crazy or not.

I’m gonna try to keep this short... so my fiancé and I live in Kentucky. He works at amazon. So around a month ago he started talking to this guy he works with (we’ll call him J). J is from Cuba. His family lives in New York and he lives here in KY. I’ve never met him but my fiancé tells me how nice he is and everything. They add each other on Facebook and J starts messaging my fiancé. J messages him ALL THE TIME. Everyday. And if my fiancé falls asleep or just doesn’t answer him for awhile then J will message him like 3 more times.

So then my fiancé, J, and some others start talking about how they want to start eating healthier. So J cooks my fiancé food and brings him lunch to work. (But hes made food for a girl they work with also)

THEN J tells my fiancé he’s going back to Cuba to visit sometime in the summer and asks my fiancé to come with him.. says he’ll pay for EVERYTHING. My fiancé tells him no. That he doesn’t have his passport and doesn’t really want to go out of the country rn. So then like the next day J tells him he’s going to New York May 9th-14th to see his family for Mother’s Day and his sisters bday. And asks my fiancé to come. Again says he’ll pay for EVERYTHING. Tells my fiancé he can meet his family and that he’ll take him to see the Statue of Liberty, China Town, etc. And if those dates don’t work for my fiancé he can change them and go another time. Now my fiancé hasn’t gave him an answer yet because he wanted to talk to me about it first. I personally am not comfortable with it at all. I think it’s crazy and super weird. And to throw this in here... my fiancé is 20 and J is like 30.

So.. do you guys think this guy is just really nice and I’m crazy? Or is this really weird?