Miscarriage difficulties

Nicole

Hello ladies just looking for some advice. I had a miscarriage at around 6 weeks at the end of January (the pregnancy was a surprise) but my partner and I were happy about it. I was away for the weekend for my sisters birthday already planned in Ireland. On the flight over I started cramping and bleeding and went straight to hospital from the flight. I had to stay in all weekend and it eventually was confirmed on the Monday I had miscarried. At first they were concerned at they could see no signs of pregnancy in the scan but my levels were high. As my levels dropped over the weekend they confirmed I had lost the baby. The experience was traumatic as I am sure it has been for you all but in a different country with limited visiting hours and put in the maternity ward made it so much more difficult. I was not given a DnC but was told I had a complete natural miscarriage. My partner was meant to be with me but his best friend past away suddenly and was attending his funeral that weekend so felt ever more difficult. I bled for over a week and was not advised to attend gp at home. Following the bleeding my partner and I had sex on feb the 4th. ( maybe a silly move but so desperate to get pregnant again) we’ve not done it since but I’ve had Cramping and pains and went to the doctors and got antibiotics for Infection. Took my course of antibiotics and still experienced pain and cramping over several weeks and convinced myself pregnancy symptoms - sore breasts, nausea, headaches, hormones all over the place. I started bleeding last weekend for 3 days so exactly 4 weeks post miscarriage. So I was gutted that meant i an not pregnant again and think was my period. Again this weeks cramping all week, exhausted back at work so, so emotional! I’m waiting another scan just to confirm what’s going on as still 5 weeks later feeling pain and all over the place. Has anyone felt similar and can give me any advice physically when this will sort itself out my doctor is hopeless and emotionally it’s bad enough without all this. To anyone managing to have read this long thanks so much?! 💞 xxx