Relationship over?

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How do you know if your relationship is over? He’s not a bad guy and he’s a good dad to our 2 year only and 7 week old but I don’t know if we should still be together. Every time we are together I feel so angry at him. He shows literally no affection towards me since we had or second child (if not since I was pregnant). I just feel like he doesn’t want to be bothered and think that’s why is making me so mad. Do t know what to do we are together over 8 years now.

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I wouldn’t do anything just yet. Your hormones are still adjusting and he is trying to figure out the jump from 1 to 2 kids. Try setting up a date with just him and see if you feel the same and then try to talk it out from there

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I would wait 6 months to a year, having another child is a huge strain on any relationship.
Just wait it out and see if things get better, they should.

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When you're not committed to working on the relationship anymore..
which it sounds like you're not.. so..
Relationships are hard. They take work all the time. We don't always feel the same way towards our partners or show the same level of affection.  Sometimes our temper is shorter. That's all normal a totally normal part of any relationship.  If you're thinking a successful relationship doesn't have those things you will probably never have a successful relationship because ALL relationships have those issues.. the successful ones are just committed to overcoming them together.
My partner and I have been through this same stuff in our 8 years together.. but at the end of the day we have always been 100% committed to coming together and overcoming these things together. If you don't have that then there is nothing that can make this relationship successful. 
If you're not ready to throw away your commitment to your relationship then I suggest you get into couple's therapy either together or you go alone if he doesn't want to go.
You can also look into couple's retreats and couple's workshops. iIf he has some sorta feelings about "therapy" this might help it feel less like therapy and more like a weekend getaway... and then take it from there.

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I've been through this in my relationship!  I almost left with our 2 boys (6yo and 2yo) last year.  I decided I wasn't going to let it end that easily (been together 13 years this year), so I started looking around online and reading books trying to do my part too get it better. I then found the "5 love languages.. The secret to love that lasts" by Gary Chapman.    It's great!   We got it on the app audible so I can listen whenever..    I definitely recommend it!

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Have you talked to him about your feelings and what you need from him?  I’d start with that first and see if you can get back to where you were before.

Relationship over?

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