Delete if not allowed**

I let me “best friend” come live with me and husband June 2018 because her boyfriend I’ll call him Tyler left her with nothing. I just wanted to help her get into a place where she would be set with her and the baby but it hasn’t happened yet! She went through the beginning of her pregnancy making a lot of progress and got a job but then she lost it and stopped really making progress.. now the baby is here and she’s going back into her ways. When the baby got here in January I let Tyler move in with us until they found a house. But now she’s going out all the time and dragging the baby with her. Which is really Messing us the baby sitting in the car seat for 4+ hours riding around while they try to find weed for them or just going out smoking with all her old friends (who are bad influences). I try taking the baby all the time just so the baby doesn’t have to be stuck doing that all the time but then I feel like I’m just enabling her. And when she is here at the house Tyler does everything for the baby! I haven’t seen her get up with the baby for the last 2 weeks. Everything is getting out of hand and I feel like she needs to go but I don’t want the baby to suffer when she leaves but I have my own baby on the way that I need to get ready for. What should I do

PS: I’m not against smoking weed, my husband smokes but also has a job and is helping me take care of everyone in the house. I don’t smoke right now cause I’m pregnant but I use to but I also have a job and are helping take care of everyone and I never needed to smoke all the time.