Mil from hell. Loooonnng story
Has anyone kicked a family member out of your babies lives? My mother in law has been driving me bonkers for a long time and it just got worse after I gave birth. So from the beginning my boyfriend has only ever had two girlfriends. It was pretty much a one night stand who never left me. We got together when we went to the movies with my best friend and she was dating his co worker in sept. When I first met my mil for the first 3 months everytime we saw her she would compare me to his ex. Oh so and so Asked about your new girlfriend and she would go on about how she compared me to his ex to that person. We were only together 3 weeks when he moved in with me. My roommate almost burnt down the entire apartment building because he was completely drunk and passed out cooking.. he did it often so my boyfriend moved in and I kicked him out. I only had a few months left on my lease so once it was up his mom had a trailer we could rent. It was her boyfriends but it seemed like a better idea our apartment was in the ghetto. This was in feb The trailer was filthy and super old when we moved in we had to clean it. They just finished the ceiling it was that textured stuff so we had to scrub and scrub the floors so many times to get it off. We only used the main bedroom as the other side of the trailer was always so cold regardless the time of the year. The water froze and broke in the bathroom right before we moved in on that side as well. The water is well water it was disgusting to use but we were happy because it meant we were out of the apartment. We decided March 31 to have a baby. Figure we should do a trip to Mexico before we get preggo. Well April 15 I was pregnant and we went to mexico May 10th. When we got back I took a pregnancy test found out I was pregnant. We always told people to keep everything off fb because it’s up to us to post stuff it’s our news. Well his mom posted I was pregnant well before my first trimester was over so I got mad at that my boyfriend made her deleted it. we invite my parents and his mom to the first ultrasound with us. Well turns out we’re having twins. I was at work and we can’t have our phones on us. After we close I go look at my phone his mom posted on fb about us having TWINS! That’s huge news and been on fb for a few hours. Well I call my boyfriend crying my eyes out he tells her to delete it. That night we have a bbq with everyone and she laughs at me when I say I told you not to post it she thought it was a big funny joke to do. Whatever. So we have a family supper a few weeks later at my aunts house. His mom comes in with her boyfriend we’re both sitting around the table. She goes up to my husband and like drapes herself over his shoulder. So we finish eating. There’s this couch where it’s kinda like an oversized single chair. Well my boyfriend sits on it and his mom runs over before I do and honestly sits on his lap and starts playing with his hair.(just me or is that really weird?) anyways we go to a 3D ultrasound invite his mom and my parents again. We wanted to do a gender revel on the babies so I get them to write the gender down and go drop it off at a local bakery. The night before the gender reveal my mom calls me that my mil told her she got us gender revelling balloons. She called the bakery and told them to call party city and get these balloons made up. I got mad and text her about it I just paid $70 for cupcakes of course you have to one up me. I told her we will pick up the balloons since she lives out of town. Well she goes to pay for the balloons and as she does my mom walks in. She can see my mil trying to peak and see what the genders were. Once she saw my mom she went running out of the building. At the party she was sitting across from us but ended up beside us. We were all sitting around outside visiting and she kept putting her hand out and holding my
Boyfriends hand. It was like fingers linked holding hands. She lit up a smoke and it was coming right towards me. I said her name and said the smoke she turned her head. She wouldn’t move so it was still coming towards me. I got up walked away my boyfriend came over i told him I’m going home so we did. A few weeks later we’re all camping I come out in a new jacket I bought before pregnancy she looks at me and tells me I don’t fit it to give it to her. We talked about marriage for a while and at some point I just wanted all of us to have the same last name. We decided oct 20th would be our wedding and it only gave us a few weeks to plan. His mom works at a hotel I worked there for a bit but I quit right before we left to Mexico. So I asked his mom to ask about us having the wedding there. They agreed and I talked to everyone after that about the wedding. We told everyone a small wedding we didn’t want more then 50 people. Well all of a sudden my mother in law invited all of her siblings and kept inviting so we told her no more. She ended up asking for 15 tickets. My mom and aunt went shopping and made all my Center pieces through those weeks before. We invited his mom to go shopping for the bridesmaid dresses and dresses for the mothers. We also asked her to see if we can go look at the hotel to give them ideas on how to decorate. That day she kept calling me and asking when we were going so she can go home. When we got there she kept fighting us on colours choices and our decoration choices. So move to the day before our wedding when we actually decorate. Everyone’s there for practise rounds and so on. Well my mom and aunt decorate while his mom follows all the groom and groomsmen around drinking not helping. Our wedding day my brother was the one who spoke at our wedding and he was asking people for donations to us to help us out. Well my mil turned to him and grabbed the bucket for donations. Said he would steal the money from it if he was in charge. She’s lucky o didn’t hear that I would of clocked her right there pregnant and all. We also went for pictures and my brother in law bought us a party bus. She’s the only parent who jumped on and kept looking at my brother and also telling him to shut up. I thanked my mom and aunt on fb for doing all the work and his mom freaked out. She text him and said I made it seem like she didn’t do anything??? Well you sat there drinking the whole time and it was my idea about the hotel. I’m not thanking someone who something they never did. After this we decide to have my baby shower. His mom was supposed to throw it but she broke up with her boyfriend so my mom threw it. We were in the kitchen making food and stuff. His mom sat in the living room everytime her family came in she would walk them to the kitchen. She would introduce them to my parents and my siblings never me. One time one of them turned around and looked at me said uhhh??? And she replied oh yeah and her I forgot she was here. Ok so we play a few games we forgot prizes but open presents. We all go back into the kitchen leave her family in there. When they leave my niece comes up and says her family was taking a bunch of the Christmas decorations off the tree. His mom was giving those away as prizes. I got really bad migraines with my pregnancy so I’m taken off work around 28 weeks. We went to a jump yard with my nieces and nephew. The rest is in the comments. Go to husband is a man child next followed by deleting all my family.
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