Is it okay to be going out with multiple boys at once? (If you’re not exclusive with any of them)

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I just got out of a long term relationship and I have a lot of boys interested in me. Is it okay if I go out with multiple of them? Or do I need to just like choose one and focus on them? Sorry I’m new to the single life 😂

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Well I mean.. you do you.. but that's a disaster waiting to happen especially if you're sleeping with all of them. I say.. stay classy and focus on one guy.

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So long as every person you plan on seeing is fully 100% aware that you’re not exclusive and that you will be seeing others at the same time. You have to be completely open and honest about that.
If everyone is aware and okay with that, then it’s fine to see multiple people at once. It is NOT okay to keep the fact that you’re seeing other people a secret, even if you’ve not had a conversation about being exclusive, you can’t just assume that because you’re not exclusive that it’s okay to mess with other people without letting everyone involved know about it.

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You do you girl. Just if you’re going to have sex with any of them make sure to get tested and tell them to get tested before doing anything and use condoms and birth control.

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Just be certain that the guys know that you are not exclusive. If everyone knows where they stand it’s fine.

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Well what do you mean .. are you just going out on a casual date with them to see where it goes and if you connect that's okaii to do that with multiple people . As long as your not having sex with all of them and playing them all. But ita nice to explore your options!

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My sister went through the same thing. She broke off with her long time boyfriend with whom she was living, she felt like "living a little" for once. She was always honest with all of them, telling them she was not looking for a relationship and that she was seeing other guys. She was very careful when meeting them for the first time and always used protection. It gave her a massive boost in self confidence as for once she felt wanted and adored. This must have lasted about 6 months, some of those relationships lasted a month or two some longer. But eventually she "got her fix" as such and after those relationships stopped she met someone special, she wasn't even looking for anyone at the time. They've been exlusive from day 1, they know each others past. It's been only 3months but they are both so smitten with one another it is so cute to watch them 😊. I am glad she took a break from "convention", it did her a world of good.

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As long as they know. It would be messed up if they were acting exclusive w you and werent aware you were seeing other people