I left my husband while 20 weeks pregnant

KT

I left my husband and daughter for 8 days. After purchasing travel insurance I took a 4 hour plane ride. I boarded a ship of 4,000 people and left the country. I ate the food. I swam in the ocean. I napped everyday. I didn't wear makeup or do my hair.

I refused to let the fear of "what if" during pregnancy dictate what opportunities I would or would not take advantage of. I didn't get sick or get zika. I did enjoy the lasting calmness and memories with my parents and sister during this adventure. I am grateful I had no complications, and allowed myself to live in the moment instead of fear. If I had the chance again I would do it in a heartbeat. But most of all... I was more excited to return to my supportive husband and daughter at the end of it.