Because i am frustrated and sad that my family keeps making negative remarks to me, I decided to eat clean and exercise regularly on a healthy level. Problem is I am naturally just thin being unhealthy (no physic activity, unhealthy diet, my weight lingers around 118 to 120) I’m 5’6. So when I start to eat healthy and exercise (maintain a healthy lifestyle) I drop lower than 115 which makes me underweight as I drop to about 108-110 fluctuating that is. I get so much shit from my family saying that with the little physical mass change in my body I look like a toothpick, I look like a boy (I’m a girl), that I look like a twig, all these things they say are meant in a negative way, being mean instead of saying you look healthy or whatever which I’m not looking for either, also I know being a little underweight or a little overweight doesn’t make necessary unhealthy, I like my body and my healthy lifestyle but how could I learn to ignore their negative comments?!? it’s not as I starve myself, like if I want fries I’ll have fries and feel good still, the dr says I’m fine just a little underweight being healthy but how do I ignore their hurtful comments because i know that if they’re trying to express concern they can but they’re just being hurtful by saying they think I look skinny and they associate that word to being completely “unhealthy”. I feel bullied by their words. I can’t talk to them about it because it all comes back to them being hurtful. I manage to ignore them but in reality I do feel hurt on the inside and it bothers me. Again just getting this off my chest.