Scared of being bi?

Question

So lately I’ve been been kinda questioning my sexuality. I have a boyfriend but I can’t stop thinking about how I was attracted to girls before him. And I can see me being with a girl if I weren’t with him. I love him and I don’t plan on leaving him or anything but it just lets me know I’m attracted to boys too. So the big thing is just that I’m kind of scared to be bi (if that make sense) I was sorta raised by the fact it’s wrong to be attracted to the same gender. Is it bad that my religion is holding me from actually finding out what my sexuality is? I mean the big reason I’m scared is because I’m a believer in both heaven AND hell. Idk what to do🤷🏻‍♀️

Answer

With the whole religious thing... God is supposed to be all loving so why not love gays? The whole thing doesn’t make sense. It’s totally fine to be bi. It’s totally normal to be bi and be in a straight relationship. You’re totally normal! Don’t be scared.

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Don’t be scared to explore your always gonna be curious about it , you should try I understand it’s against your religion but i mean we only live once😢 I’m bi and i don’t think just for that we going to hell 😭💕

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I cant help you to reconcile your religious beliefs with your sexual preferences because I'm not religious and religious beliefs are very personal. I'm a bi women and it is scary to be honest with yourself and realize that you are attracted to the same sex. Especially in middle school and high school I was so scared and confused by my feelings cause I kinda thought your either gay or straight. I didnt know i could be bi sexual. It wasnt until i was in my 20s that i started exploring my sexuality with the same sex and even then it was kind of a secret thing. I have had sex with women but I've only had relationships with men. So just know because you have these feelings doesn't make you love your boyfriend any less or you need to leave him. To be honest with you my husband who was my bf at the time, really is the one who I helped explore my sexuality the most. I was able to be honest and open with him about what i liked. Now we explore that together and have had group sex and threesomes together. I'm not saying thats for a anyone just saying it is possible to explore your sexuality while being in a healthy, happy relationship. There is nothing wrong with you, you are normal and healthy. Explore all of who you are not just sexually but in all ways. It will make you a wiser, happier, more well rounded human. You aren't hurting anyone so just enjoy. Remember the wise words of Auntie Mamme "life's a buffet...and most poor bastards are starving to death"

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This is why I stopped being religious. It’s horrible. You can be whoever the hell you want.

Scared of being bi?

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