Idk much about the correct terms and names lol

So my husband and I (27 & 25) are thinking of both joining the military. He works full time at a company as a driver works crazy hours to get a decent paycheck, he gets alot of overtime which is usually why he gets a good check. Hes getting tired and I can see it wearing him down daily. I am a STHM and we had our first child 5 yrs ago I eventually went to college but stopped after I had my 2nd, which is now2 yes old And now I have a 6month old baby. I'm stuck, i feel like theres no way out of this circle my mom lives with us but she is slowly losing her vision and it scares me, the future scares me. I am her only child and as her ona and only child I fear that I wont ever be able to help her. I know she isnt my responsibility but she is my mother and I feel like I owe her my entire life lol I didnt finish school (nursing) which was my goal and now I feel like life is just not going In the direction i wish, or that i thought it would.

My husband came up with this idea that i join the Navy to continue my education in nursing. I didnt think it was a bad idea considering before i finished HS i wanted to join the Marines and I ended up not doing that iether! He too would go after but I'm not entirely sure how we would work everything out?? Now my only worry and I know that if I so join I'd have to leave my kids😫 especially my beautiful baby girl, I breastfeed her and that's what hurts the most, breaking that bond. I know I'd have to leave For a while but I think it would be for the best. I would like to hear someones opinion, mostly from someone who is in the navy or even a navy wife..lol idk if someone from the navy would even be on this?? Lol anyways anyone's input is always welcome

Thanx, I'm just trying to see if this is the correct choice. Idk if I talk to a recruiter they'll be more likely to pressure me to enlist or you know what I mean...