My boyfriend is just so bad on bed

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mimi

what you girls might do when your lovely bf is just too bad on bed?

Im not his first love, but probably the first to tell him how bad he is when it comes to sex (of course i never say that directly to him). We’ve been together for 2 years and have had sex regularly, but he never improve. He doesnt last long at all (about 2-5’. 15’ is the most he can make) and he knows that but cant really do anything to keep it longer... we do love and care to each other, but this may eventually affect our relationship if it remains unsolved...

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Li

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I think he’s being selfish.. he should be making sure u get off.. if he knows he doesn’t last long.. then he should give u plenty of foreplay and orgasms before enjoying himself.

Ja

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There is lube that help the man last longer, you can try that. Also just not saying anything won't make him better at sex, just right before you can say "Hey let's try something new" and show him how you like it and not being rude by telling him "you are bad in bed and should improve on his own" like who is he gonna practice on? You or on other people?

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Sarah • Mar 7, 2019
Desensitizing lube!!! I agree, that should help.

Be

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Encourage him to do things you do like. Praise/complement him when he does well. To get him to last longer try either getting him off earlier in the day so he'll last longer at night or spend more time getting you off in longer foreplay sessions before getting to vaginal sex. Experiment, watch some porn together and try things that spark your interest. Try toys for you.

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Beth • Mar 7, 2019
If you flat out tell him he sucks in bed, he's going to get defensive, shy and self conscious. It will cause way more problems. Imagine if he said that to you.