Low Libido

Ever since I took my birth control out so my boyfriend and I could try to conceive, my libido has been painfully low. Even if I am turned on, I’m experiencing vaginal dryness which we have never had issues with before. And it takes a miracle to get me to orgasm. Its stressful and depressing to me because it feels like it’s my fault that our sex life sucks now. Is there any way to get your libido back after stopping the use of birth control? Any tips to help a girl out? I just want to get back to normal.