Second wedding

Hi all, I’m just feeling a little overwhelmed and looking for advice

I am engaged and planning a wedding. We dabbled with the idea of eloping but now he has decided he wants his family there (immediate, as in his father, brothers and their families). I understand this but it’s a bit hard because this is my second marriage. I would just have my mother, sister and her family but I feel so weird having them witness this is my life AGAIN. I feel embarrassed in a sense and feel nobody will take my marriage seriously since my first one didn’t last long and we had a decent sized, traditional wedding. I’m just feeling down in the dumps. I know I shouldn’t care what others think but it’s stressing me out. 😞