Last night my husband, son, and I atnt just to my moms house for dinner. My two sisters were there, one 18 and the other 14. Upon entering the house I am asked to come back to the smoke room because my 14 year old sister had to talk to me about something.

I found out that she is grounded till the end of the school year because she got into a fight with my parents after getting suspended from school because of she punched a girl and got in a fight (My sister won... not that it matters) and spilled everything she did with her friends included bit not limited too, da drinking, sneaking out, smoking pot, giving themselves real tattoos with tattoo ink and a sewing needle, jumping off a train track bridge into a shallow creak (we call it the trussle). She cant leave the house, use her phone, no tv, no visitors, she cant go anywhere except school and home.

So here's my problem, if this is how they normally would ground her I would be okay but for the past 3 years they have just been giving her money and letting her do what she wants no matter how bad her attitude got or what a bitch she was during my wedding and now they all of a sudden want to discipline her?

In my opinion it's too late for them to try and step in, she doesn't listen to them, they wont stick to the grounding they never have. I think a military school is the only place to turn her around, shes a tough kid, strong for her size. And my parents can afford it, they make more money then they like to admit. She wont even let the kid out to see me, family.

So my question is do you think it's too late for my parents to step in? Is military school a good move?