Second puberty?!

Okay from the beginning, hubby and I havent been as careful as usual the past 2 months. I have ovarian cysts as well.

Well I got my period like a week or so ago it was 3days heavy, a day light. Then like 2-3 days just spotting. My breasts have been hurting for 3 wks now and even gotten bigger, I get weird cramps on my lower pelvic area every now n then. I havent tested because it's hard for me to even get pregnant. I seriously feel like I'm going thru a second puberty. Has this happened to u? Can sperm affect my hormones?! Please respond yall..