I take the night "shift" with baby from midnight to 6am so my fiancé can sleep decent before work AND because once he's asleep he doesn't wake up to the baby screaming. Then I'm caring for the baby alone till 6pm when he gets home. All I ask is from 6-midnight he does baby duty.

LAST night I got up with baby around 1am and he kept me up till 5:30 when my fiancé got up for work, then I ofcourse have to make his coffee and lunchand let the dogs out after he leaves at 6:30 then of course baby wakes up again , i got a small nap while baby napped from 7-8 and then up with him all day till 6 . Well my fiancé gets home and showers ,gets out of the first diaper change and bottle on his duty - whatever, an hour and a half later suggests getting food , I agree, he goes to town to get it and he gets out of diaper change and bottle #2 on his shift

About 2 hours later he is holding baby and baby starts blowing up his diaper, fiancé says oh YOURE Getting this one ! I said the fuck I am I've been changing diapers all day you haven't changed a single one , it's 9 and last I checked that means it's your shift. Then I laid down for my nap that I'm supposed to be guaranteed every night from 9- midnight.... then I am awakened to crying baby - I don't open my eyes cause surely dad will be calming the crying any second... I wait... and wait... open my eyes and sit up and dad is passed out next to me . I say loudly BABE YOU THINK YOU MUGHT GET UP WITH YOUR KID?? He opens his eyes but he's not awake . So I get up . It's 10:30. I screamed at him what time is was and THANKS FOR THE FUCKING HELP.

I'm furious. I'm exhausted.ive had 3 1/2 hours of naps in the last 24 hours and I am up with the baby. Yet after 6straight hours of sleep last night and his energy drink, he is so exhausted he can't handle 6 fucking hours. Am I allowed to be furious with him tomorrow when he wakes up from a nice 10 hour sleep and I (If baby has the BEST sleep night) will get AT MOST 6 broken hours before we have 12 hours of errands to run tomorrow? How would you react?