Frustrated

FTM I find myself at night becoming frustrated. I try not to ask for help because my husband works full time and with breastfeeding(exclusively pumping) I feel like I’m not getting any sleep. I know that my husband would jump right out of bed if I asked him to but I don’t want to cause I feel I should be able to do this on my own. He takes over when he gets home but it’s just night time that frustrates a the most. I can be fine all day and I take naps when I can and then once he gets home he takes over but nights for some reason I just can’t get down. I really only try to wake him when I absolutely can’t do it because I’m so upset and frustrated. Any suggestions?