Frustrated post ectopic surgery

I had ectopic and tube removal in mid November of 2018. In the 2 cycles after that the dr told me to wait and heal before ttc again I discovered my cycles are 45 days long. I’m just extremely frustrated that I have to wait so long each cycle to even try. I get almost half the amount of tries per year that a normal person gets, plus the fact that I had the ectopic and had no risk factors for it.

Does anyone have positive stories post ectopic or with long regular cycles? Thanks!