I don't even know what to do at this point. I love my boyfriend , I really do, BUT our sex life sucks. And the whole 4 times a month if that I get it , it seems to be when he hasnt gotten off for a while and clearly needs to. It's all of 5 min if I'm lucky and I feel jipped. And we always end up doing it AFTER I get ready for bed , which means I've removed all the make up, the cute outfits, and look like freaking beetle juice and not feeling sexy at all. Like helloooooo why not try shit when I'm looking and feeling good ?! On days I make a major effort like yesterday and he finally came to bed , was rubbing all up on me...and NOTHING. He just stops and lays there so I got up and left the room. Was so upset , cried all night. I've had so many convorsations with him and nothing changes. It makes me feel like the efforts are such a waste. I would just once in a while like him to react when I get all done up...like rip my damn clothes off...ugh.... And the sad part is , we have 4 months together neither of us work in the winter ( how our company runs) so there's plenty of time, not like he's tired from work. That's all.