Alone?

Question

Does anyone else feel like they go through mc and just the loss of a child alone. Like I know my husband knows and is sad about it sometimes but we don’t talk about it and id love to talk about our son more and sometimes it feels like I’m the only one who lost our baby. I know he was upset in the beginning when it happened and everything but sometimes I feel like he just forgets about it or just acts like it never happened..

Answer

Have you asked him? My husband was trying to be strong for me and no remind me all the time. So one day I just asked him if he was still hurting and he said of course. I told him I needed to talk about it with the only other person who cared about the baby. Since then he has mentioned it here and there. When I least expect it he will bring it up, and as sad as i am that he still hurts, it’s so much better to go through it together. Your husband doesn’t know what you need until you say something. Hoping he figures it out will just frustrate you. (My husband tells me all the time, “guys can be dense, but we can’t read minds either”. Communication is key, even though it’s hard)

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