My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years. We have been trying to have a baby since this time last year and I am pregnant for the 3rd time since losing 2 others due to a miscarriage and ectopic. I am extremely excited about this pregnancy because even though I haven't been to a doctor yet it seems like it's going well so far. Unfortunately, our relationship seems to be going up in smoke. He says it's because of my bitching and complaining, and I know I can nag him too much. He will drink and he will drink until he can't stand up straight. When I tell him I want to spend time with him without him drinking he will complain. If I ask him not to drink too much, he basically shrugs it off. He will get to these points where he is calling me names and aggressive towards me because I take the vehicle keys and stuff. He will tell me that he will flatten the tires on my truck and burn the house down because I don't let him drink and drive. He doesn't even work right now due to his work being hindered by the weather, and even when he works he doesn't pay for anything except for his beer. Now I'm wondering what is going to happen between me and him and how I'm going to work a full time job with abnormal hours and raise a baby. I know this is drawn out and probably hard to follow, but does anyone have any advice?