Very unsatisfied...
Ok so I’ve been with my bf for over five years now, we met when we were very young actually but didn’t start dating until we were much much older, I’m 28 and he’s 30. I’m 5 months pregnant with our first baby now and we don’t have sex at all. Haven’t really even before I got pregnant. The night I got pregnant he didn’t even really wanna have sex and we used a condom but I got pregnant anyways. Go figure. I love him, he’s my best friend, we laugh and joke and have a great relationship... except for sex or ANY physical intimacy at all. I’ve been given oral twice in five years, and I’m a clean hygienic girl. The most foreplay I ever get is literally MAYBE a min of him just touching my clitoris and then it’s always straight to penetration where I then have to concentrate really hard and rub my own clitoris in order to orgasm as fast as possible otherwise I won’t get to as he never lasts more then about 5 mins. And we don’t have sex but once every two weeks, sometimes more. I don’t get anything more then even a chaste kiss, we don’t ‘make-out’ EVER, I have to beg him to cuddle with me and his idea of cuddling is laying next to me. Not spooning, not with an arm over me, none of that. It didn’t even close to always to this way, somewhere in these past couple years the intimacy is just completely gone. And YES I’ve tried talking to him about this on several occasions but any changes he makes never last long at all. Like a couple days and that’s it. Obviously I’ve made the choice and stayed with him and just dealt with it and maybe it’s just because I’m pregnant and hormonal that now that I’m like really really hurt. My feelings are so hurt, like I’m crying right now as I type this. I feel such a lack of physical connection in general. I don’t even know why I’m posting about this, I don’t even know what advice could possibly be given except talk to him, which I’ve done, or leave him for someone else, which I don’t want to do. Emotionally he is the best, very supportive. And like I said our relationship otherwise is great. It’s like i can’t even watch a movie with a sex scene in it tho because it makes me want to cry, out of longing, out of jealously, even maybe anger? I don’t know. Someone please talk to me about this. Say something, anything, experience wise or comfort, anything would be greatly appreciated right now.

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