Soon to be 35, wedding in June- should we begin TTC now?

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Dress is a non-issue as I can alter it, but my only detractor is possibly being sick during the festivities. Husband is 44. I feel like we should start trying now in case we have trouble conceiving so we are a few months ahead of the game, but if we get pregnant right away it might be inconvenient. The chances are so low I am thinking start now. Help!

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So update, I’m 12 weeks pregnant this weekend.... first try 🙈

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We are 5 months from our wedding now and have been trying for 3 months. Before that I was like I don't want to be pregnant when I get married but now, all I want is to be pregnant so if I am when we get married I don't care. In fact I think it would be nice to have our child at the wedding ❤. Go for it!!

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Start now I have two kids and trying for number 3 and on 7th month of trying I’m 32 and he’s 30

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That’s a hard one! Some people get pregnant first cycle and some take longer and you wouldn’t really know until you try!! I thought I’d have a hard time getting pregnant but got pregnant on cycle 2.  I ended up miscarrying though and went on to get pregnant quickly again and miscarry again. I didn’t really think I would miscarry (I was 28 and 29 at the time, I’ve always been healthy, regular periods, etc). Anyways I would not want to deal with a pregnancy or G-d forbid a miscarriage near your wedding day! It is just devastating and I couldn’t have imagined having to pretend to put a smile on my face while dealing with that. Sorry to be a downer but there is always a risk of miscarriage and I think we often don’t think of that.

Soon to be 35, wedding in June- should we begin TTC now?

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