I'm feeling conflicted. I would really like to have another child but my husband does not. We have 1 girl. She just turned 1.

I just don't know how we can make a final decision when we are on complete opposite ends...and there's really no way of compromising. You either have another child or you don't.

He's a single child and I'm a twin. I would love for our daughter to have sibling. It's not like I want to start trying right now. I wanted to wait until the end of the year or beginning of next year. His main concern is his social life (to make it clear, he's an amazing father to our daughter). Basically he wants to hang out with the guys every once in a while or do date night where he doesn't feel like he needs to rush to eat because we have our daughter with us. He feels like of we have another child, than it'll really be hard to go out with friends. I feel like we just need to be better at asking our family to babysit, so we can have our date nights.

I'm just afraid that once he gets a little more freedom, he'll still not want another baby.

Sorry for the long/scattered brain post.