so uh, anyone else had a bad experience with coconut oil lube?

My partner and I used this one coconut oil based lube for around a month and we’ve both suffered for it.

him: rash, chafing, irritation, soreness

me: rash, chapped labia, blisters, swollen vagina, itching, burning when peeing

also any advice on how to alleviate the pain? I was thinking bag balm in the interim but I’m a bit wary of putting it down there