I wanna vent! So I guess a little backstory is needed.

My parents got divorced years ago. I believe I was 19 and finalized when I was 21 or so. My dad moved out and we kept are close relationship. My mom moved out a year later and we never had a good relationship she moved for 5 years and came back like it didn’t happen. Also did not talk to me while states away because of the family she had there.

Well my wedding was last year and she moved home. Was so mad my dad and his girlfriend were there together and thought is was disrespectful. I blew it off because I like my dad’s girlfriend. (My mom knows her and hey had bad blood)

Now I am almost 10 weeks pregnant and we were talking about gender reveals and baby showers. Then I said well I will probably host them at my house because no one has seen our new home. She straight said she won’t come and be around “that Bitch” aka my dad’s now fiancé. So now her and my grandmother(who raised me from 15 until I moved out with my husband) said they both won’t be coming to it at my home.

I am so hurt and just needed to vent. I knew my mom probably wouldn’t come(and didn’t mind) but never thought my grandmother would follow... so upset about that.