Alright so I need some help. Me and my boyfriend have had several fights over the same thing, and he is making me feel like I’m in the wrong. Here’s some background information.

My boyfriend was my best friend for 3 years before we started dating, and we’ve been dating for almost 6 months now. We work together, and last year this girl at work treated me so horribly. She bullied me for 9 months, and told my bosses I am a horrible coach. She basically tried to get me fired. It’s safe to say that we absolutely hate each other. Before we started dating, he knew about this and didn’t like her very much either.

But, since we’ve been dating, it’s like he forgot all about that. In fact, we were arguing about her one time and I said “I just hate her” and his response was “Well, I love her. I don’t have any reasons to hate her.” Safe to say that pissed me off. I feel like the way she treated me should be a good enough reason at least not to “love” her.

Lately, this has become more of a problem. He has been working for her every day, and she completely takes advantage of him. He will literally do anything and everything she asks. I’ve been getting way more frustrated with it lately. Also, just to clarify. I don’t think this is jealousy. We are in a happy relationship, and so is this girl, not to mention she is 4 years older than him. I know he would never cheat on me.

I think the thing that makes me the most mad is that he will do anything she asks, even if he’s sick, or it’s causing him physical pain. I guess I just feel like I’m the only person that he should do any of that for, and it doesn’t help when it’s probably the one person in the world that I truly hate.

Basically, I’m wondering if that’s wrong for me to think that. Because he acts like I’m some psycho girlfriend when we argue about this. Sorry this is so long. I’d love some advice though