So this boy that I’ve been messing around with for 5 months. He says were in a relationship but it doesn’t seem like it. All there ever is, is sex. He says he loves me and what not. But we are constantly arguing, I caught him still speaking to females he use to date and also have sex with before me. He blamed me for him entertaining them, he blames me everytime we argue. He pulls that his last relationship did him wrong card 24/7. I tried to tell him it wasn’t gonna work out cause we’re toxic. He then continue to say nobody ever stays, he loves me and he knows what he did was wrong and etc. Yet he goes to California every other week it seems like and says he doesn’t trust me while he’s there. I just feel like he’s trying to manipulate me. I don’t wanna force this relationship. So all I can think of is ghosting him.