Insecure about my V :(

Does anyone else feel super insecure about it? I mean I have a bf who i’ve been with 3 years but for some reason i’m still insecure even tho he doesn’t complain about it. My labia flaps stick out a little 😫 why couldn’t I have been born with my V tucked all the way in! 😞.. also I realized I get UTI’s a lot even when I drink cranberry juice and water! could it be that the way my vagina is formed keep more bacteria around?? It sometimes even hurts when I have sex.. :(

Any advise? I’ve heard of labiaplasties

but i’m sure that’s so expensive :(