Advice!!
So I got on Bumble sometime in November and there's a guy I've been talking to since. We've been video chatting when we can, and I'm actually starting to really like him. And he's told me that he likes me too. He's in the army, stationed in Kansas. I've been through a long distance thing before and it did not work out. So I told myself I was never gonna do it again. But then I meet (just gonna call him John for privacy) John and idk it feels different. Like it could maybe work. A part of me is scared and he knows my story with my past relationship. So he knows that I don't wanna rush through this. Recently he said that he would like to come visit me in Texas in summer for like a week if I would be cool with it. And honestly I was shocked because not even my ex wanted to come meet me. And here's John who just started to get to know me and he already wants to come see me. I want him to, but I'm just scared. Scared to get my heart broken again or to find out he's not the person I thought he was. And I still gotta tell my dad cuz I've already told my mom (I'm 20, going to college and still living with them) and I don't know how he's gonna feel about me being on a dating app in the first place. My mom was sorta okay with it and shes okay with him coming to see me even though I know shes hesitant. Should I let him come see me or should we wait? Should it be for a week? Or less? And now he seems to be acting strange recently. Like he's distancing himself almost. Like literally just last week and this past weekend we texted back and forth. He usually gets back to me and never leaves me hanging. But for all I know he could be tired from work and all. I may just be overreacting lol I mean we did just have a serious conversation Sunday and he did tell me he wants to be there for me. So I could just be reading too much into it.
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