How would you feel?

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My husband told me straight up that he checks out other women, I asked what exactly he meant, and he said I check to see if they have a nice butt, legs...etc. Am I supposed to be hurt about this?

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I would say back “that’s fine because i check men out too so idgaf” he might be just trying to get under your skin

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No not at all. Women also check out men, and women also check out women. I’m straight and married and I still say wow she has a nice butt if I see someone in top shape. It’s just normal. You can’t expect him to walk around like Sandra Bullock in Birdbox

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I feel like it's one of those things that everybody in relationships does, but you don't talk about it.

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Honestly, I don’t bother to check men out because what’s the point of check them out when I’m in a relationship? Unless they dresses super amazing, that’s when I’d check their styles out like hmm, I should get that for my man but others than that, there’s no need for me to do that. If my boyfriend does that, I would probably feel a bit bothered, it’s because I don’t check men out but there’s nothing I can do about his eyes and I can’t control that. But from what my boyfriend told me, he doesn’t feel right doing that either unless he’s single.

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I think it’s human nature to look, but it is a choice to feel something about what a person sees. I can look at other men and feel nothing, but I don’t ever catch my eye wondering. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I love my husband and he feels the same way. I don’t understand the need to make it a point to not only do it with the intention of hurting someone you love.

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No I check out women and men all the time 🤷🏻‍♀️ I know my man takes a look at other women it doesn’t bother me at the end of the day I’m his entire world. It’s only natural to notice others appearances doesn’t mean you want to have sex with them or leave your partner.

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Not really cause women check men out too.  It's human nature.  But you feel what you feel.

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I do not check out other men and don't believe in it because my personal beliefs are that I am married and shouldn't be lusting over another man.

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Yes. Thats disrespectful.

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That's completely normal.

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