I’m 9 weeks today and the father of my child, also the man I’ve been with for a year and a half (give and take one break up time) has been really hard on me lately about being pregnant.

Saying I did it on purpose, saying he feels trapped. He’s usually against abortion but he’s basically telling me to get one so we can be “normal and happy again” he already has a 4 year old son with someone else so what’s the problem with me? I don’t get it.

Ever since I did tell him I was pregnant we’ve been fighting non stop and he even stopped telling me he loved me and it’s been really hard and miserable. You can tell he doesn’t care. It almost makes me want to have an abortion so I don’t have to deal with him for a lifetime.