We’re split on this and it’s killing me


So we have three boys. I’m pregnant. I didn’t get the NIPT. I want to schedule an early elective ultrasound at 14/15 weeks to find out if little bean is a boy or girl. He wants to wait until the 20 week scan. I’m dying to know if this is a girl or not. Three boys. Four if you count my overgrown man child of a life partner. Like come on babe agree to an early scan. 😫😫