It's been a little over a month of waiting in limbo since my bf parents told him they won't approve for me to be his wife. He's barely spoken to them since but ultimately if they made him choose....he has to choose them....they are his family. But the not knowing if or when this will come is killing me. He swears he's going to talk to them tonight or tomorrow to see if they can accept me or agree to disagree or if they force the ultimatum. This man is the love of my life and I can't even begin to imagine my life without him.

*update*

He tried to talk to them again. They still said that they cannot and will not ever accept me and that he's just lonely and making an emotional decision. Marriage is about more than just US and our feelings and he can't be selfish, he needs to think about his family too. They told him to quit his job and go back to Taiwan. I don't know what to do 😭