Coming home outfit

So this is my husband and I first baby. His parents 4th grandkid and my parents first. Both his mom and my grandma want to give me a a coming home dress (separate dresses) but then me and hubby picked out a cute comfy knotted baby gown for her since he most likely won’t be there. I have voiced opinion casually multiple times but now both have messaged me saying they have the perfect outfit for her....I’m so thankful for them wanting to do so much but is it wrong to falsely accept the gifts if I’m going to use the one we picked instead? (Was planning to just be very happy and thankful when accepting them & vague about using them)